Monday, November 24, 2008

The Holidays

I know, I know, I have not written for a while and I have had a bunch of things roll through my head. I did attend the Show No Hate Rally a few weeks ago and since it was bitter cold outside I think I caught the crap that is working its way through the schools. I am feeling somewhat better now. I wanted to catch up and let you all know what the holidays are going to bring to me.

This season is usually very festive....... all the decorations that go up in my house is frightening. Let's just say, I get very familiar with the basement steps. I would say there are at least 10 tubs of Christmas decorations that come up stairs. This will be our second Christmas in our new house and since we have some new furniture, the living room should be more open this year.

This season is also bitter, my partner's mom has been in a hospital or nursing home since Jan. of this year. She had a good day yesterday but has not had good days leading up to yesterday. Please, if you pray, please pray for Betty. She is a wonderful woman and does not need to suffer like this. So that puts a big strain on my partner and once again her family is AWOL or however you spell that word. We have spent the last week if not two going through all of her medical bills. If you can get long-term care insurance now, do so. Trust me we will all need it later.

My grandfather also went into the hospital 2 weeks ago. Now he is 97. He has lived a great life and he is still fighting. His wife Helen is 98 and she is at the facility by herself right now. So once again, if you are the praying type, please pray for John and Helen Small. They need GOD's strength now.

As you can see, my heart is heavy this holiday season. I plan on cooking Thanksgiving Dinner and sure hope it is better than the dinner that I tried to cook last night, boy did that suck. I plan on going shopping the day after Thanksgiving. It is always wonderful when the school district gives us our paychecks early so we can go out and spend a few more bucks. I also plan on getting most of my shopping finished before Dec. 24th. But we will have to see.

I am not going to shop for my Dad and Betty until I get to Chicago after Christmas, the deals at Kohl's are too grand to pass up the days after Christmas.

I hope everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving. Try to do what the day is intended to do, sit and relax and be with the people you love.

For all you bitches that will be in town for Thanksgiving, come by the house after 8 for some holiday cheer.

Love ya all,

BOSS

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am thinking about your grandpa & Helen, and also for Terri's mom, Betty. Take care of yourself through all of this.

Happy Thanksgiving

Unknown said...

Holidays can bring up conflicting emotions between joy and loss... (this will be my first holidays without my parent, today is my Dad's birthday)
Thinking and praying for your family and looking forward to the joy of celebrating with friends who have become family. Love you

Rodney Bequette said...

BOOTIE.

BOOO TIE.....


BOOOOOOOO TTTTIIIIEEEEEE!!!!!!!!


Sophia home.
Sophia HOME.

Dr. Small,
Thank you for your warm, hospitable love last night! It was turkey day supreme! It felt so good to enter a house with no preconceived notions and be accepted for the brother that I am! I love you and our rag-tag families!

We will all stick together this year, and force our way through the festive holiday season!

to quote Uncle Edward, or is he scrooge? BAH HUMBUG!!!

xoxo
rodney